Blow her mind this Christmas
Kaieteur News – I met a friend a few days ago. It all looked strained. I asked him what the problem was, and he replied that he couldn’t decide what to give his partner as a gift.
Here is a guy who was short of cash. He could buy whatever he wanted. The problem he faced was that he didn’t know what to buy. He couldn’t choose the appropriate gift that would express exactly how he felt.
I know quite a few men who have the same problem. My advice to them is always to do something that would blow their partners’ minds.
Do something that would have all their partners starred. In the process, you may also be doing something for yourself.
There are some women who feel that you can show your love best by the kind of gift you give them. The more expensive the gift, the greater the love. I know quite a few men who dig deep into their accounts to buy that expensive gift for their loved ones. If that’s what it takes to blow their partners’ minds, well, so too.
This reminds me of an older, white-haired Guyanese, who walked into a jewelry store one Friday night with a beautiful young woman by her side. He told the jeweler that he was looking for a special ring for his girlfriend. The jeweler looked through his stock and brought out a $ 50,000 ring.
The old man said, “No, I would like to see something more special.”
In that release, the jeweler went into his special stock and brought over another ring. “Here’s a stunning ring at just $ 400,000:” said the jeweler.
The young woman’s eyes sparkled and her whole body trembled with excitement. The old man, seeing this, said, “We will take that.”
The jeweler asked how payment would be made and the old man said, “By check. I know you need to make sure my check is good, so I’ll write it now, and you can call the bank on Monday to check the money, and I’ll pick up the ring on Monday afternoon. “
Monday morning, the jeweler telephoned the old Guyanese man. “There’s no money in that account.”
“I know,” said the Guyanese man, “But let me tell you about my weekend!”
Some years ago, I wrote an article about blowing a woman’s mind. He was very popular on feminist blogs. I concluded that article with the following comment: When men court, and seriously want a girl, they are on their best behavior. They shower her with gifts, say the nicest things, and are always kind and considerate.
But no sooner does the wedding ring get on the bride’s finger that her suffering begins.
Suddenly, some men start to take their partner for granted and at times even try to humiliate their wives in front of their friends.
I encourage all men in Guyana to treat their partners with respect. To pamper them and make them feel loved and wanted.
One night, I watched an interview on NBC with Billy Bob Thornton. He was talking about his ex-wife, the stunning Angelina Jolie, and took all the blame for their split. He told the interviewer that it was entirely his fault. Then when asked why the two split, he said he had nothing to do with his infidelity.
He added, “I was scared of her. It was too beautiful for me. She was too smart for me. She had too much integrity for me. I felt so small next to her. ”That line, sincerely and precisely, would blow any woman away. No woman could ask for more praise from a man, even one from whom she is divorced.
I believe that most women would prefer love and affection to the most expensive gift in the world. The greatest gift you can give a woman is your unfailing love and respect.
Blow her mind, not by the value of the gift, but by the love and respect behind it.
(The views expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of this newspaper.)